The man we're looking for

won't be obsessed with us; he'll be "obsessed" with the Lord. And his love for us will pale in comparison to his love for the Lord and the things of the Lord. If he's the right man, he will be careful with our heart … And our guiding focus won't be a hedonistic passion for one another --but an all-consuming passion for Christ. Our life's focus won't be on each other -though I know we'll love each other dearly -it will be on kingdom work.
~Jasmine Baucham
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